We have been talking about weight loss on Wednesdays and healthy living. One of the things I have tried to eliminate/cut in my family is the idea of entitlement. One thing I want my kids to learn early in their lives is that they do not need or deserve much of what they have. What we are blessed with is just that...a blessing. So many people feel that they deserve certain things in life because they are good, they are smart, or multiple other reasons. Although this is not pounds added to their body, I feel it is pounds added to their soul. How can a person who feels entitled fully accept the person God wants them to be?I love to find new ways for my family to serve others. I feel that through serving, my children and I better see the importance of being the hands and feet of Christ. Do we still have a feelings of entitlement? Sure! Sometimes I think I deserve a house, less bills, a car that runs great, and a stop at that grocery that does not require using a million coupons. I think as humans we fall into this trap more often than not. The key is to pull our minds out of this tunnel vision. That is why I find serving others important. It helps bring me back to reality.
Even though we may all live in different communities, we most likely have similar places to serve. You may even be fortunate enough to find a grassroots opportunity around your home. The key is to find something that is age appropriate for your children and something that you can do as a family. Don't forget to include your friends in this adventure. Sometimes places need a group of people to serve.
1. Pregnancy Support Centers - many of these will take donations of gently used and new baby items. You can have a collection for them.
2. Ronald McDonald House - most RMH's serve meals a couple times a week. They are looking for people to prepare the food and serve. This is a great opportunity for older children.
3. Habitat for Humanity - this is another one for older kids and adults, but what a great opportunity to help someone build a dream!
4. Meals on Wheels - this requires transportation, but so many of these people just want a friendly face to visit them. Sometimes, you can help with grocery shopping. This is fun for kids of all ages!
5. Animal Rescues - my kids and I like to make chew toys for dogs, then we donate them to a local shelter. You can also do a pet food drive. Just check to make sure you know what food they need.
6. Nursing Homes - most nursing homes will let you come in to visit residents. Our 4-H group has done this. We will sing songs and then chat with residents. Your kids are never too young to make new grandparents!
7. Food pantrys - many food pantrys need people to organize donations and pack bags so they are ready for familys in need. This is something that Michelle used to do with Jonah while Maddy was at preschool.
8. Shelters - each shelter will have specific needs. Some need help in soup kitchens. Others need help packaging food for people. Some may even need blanket or clothing donations.
9. Community Gardens - many neighborhoods have or want a community garden. These gardens provide fresh produce for the neighborhood.
10. Neighbors - what about just helping your neighbors? Weeding, shoveling snow, raking leaves, or just stopping by for a visit are a great way to build community!
All of these opportunities are ways for your family and friends to be involved in the lives of others. It is true when people say that serving is rewarding. Teach this to your children when they are young and help them build a future of service instead of entitlement.
Your girlfriend,
Melinda
No comments:
Post a Comment